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Bangkit dari Kesedihan

08.03 by Afiah Fitrianti
Setiap orang pasti pernah mengalami masa-masa sulit. Penyebabnya macam-macam, bisa karena sedang patah hati, sakit secara fisik, bokek alias tidak punya uang, dan semacamnya. Pada saat-saat seperti itu, bisa jadi orang mengalami frustrasi, depresi, dan ekstremnya, mencoba bunuh diri.

Mudah-mudahan Anda tidak usah seperti itu. Coba tip di bawah ini untuk menemukan kembali semangat diri.

1. Ayunkan tubuh dan bernyanyi
Pasang musik favorit, terutama yang berirama disko atau dance. Sambil bergoyang, Anda juga bisa ikut menyanyi.

2. Tersenyum
Tersenyum bisa ‘mengakali’ otak. Maksudnya, karena otot-otot Anda memaksakan senyum, otak akan berpikir bahwa Anda sedang senang.

3. Habiskan waktu dengan orang-orang tercinta
Ada orang yang senang kongkow dengan teman-temannya, ada juga yang senang bermain dengan anak-anak kecil. Terserah yang mana pilihan Anda, yang jelas pilihan kedua amat menyenangkan. Bayangkan Anda mencubit pipi seorang bocah, menyaksikan keriangannya menjilat es krim, bermain di kolam renang, atau melakukan apa pun. Percayalah, keriangan anak-anak akan menular pada Anda.
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Perempuan Itu..

08.01 by Afiah Fitrianti
Perempuan itu (kadang) bodoh.
Jika ada pemuda yang mendekati, akan mengira bahwa pemuda memiliki perasaan lebih padanya. Bahkan walau isi pesannya hanya, "halo, sedang apa?"

Perempuan itu (kadang) bodoh.
Jika seorang pemuda mulai mengajaknya mengobrol dengan sering dan atau suka meneleponnya sesaat sebelum tidur, perempuan akan merasa kegirangan tanpa sebab yang jelas.

Perempuan itu (kadang) bodoh.
Setelah si pemuda mulai sering mengirimkan pesan, dan sering berbalas pesan juga, maka perempuan akan menjadikan si pemuda kebiasaannya. Menjadi kebiasaan seperti heroin. Yang jika tidak muncul sehari akan dicari-cari. Yang jika sehari saja tidak mengirim pesan akan terasa satu dekade. Yang akan merasa 'sakaw' seperti berhenti dari kecanduan. Ya. Sungguh bodoh.
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Karena, Wanita Itu..

08.00 by Afiah Fitrianti
wanita menangis bukan karna mencari
perhatian, bukan juga karna menarik
perhatian tapi itulah isi hati yg tak bisa
seorang wanita ungkapkan, bukan tak
terbuka tapi karna banyaknya alasan logis
dimana laki-laki terkadang merasa tak
terima/menganggap ungkapan seorang
wanita adalah tuntutan/menuntut& laki-laki
akan menganggap wanita itu EGOIS.
tapi kadang laki-laki tak pernah sadar bahwa
wanita yg mereka anggap EGOIS itu adalah
wanita terbaik bahkan paling baik yg pernah
mereka punya
wanita yg kalian anggap EGOIS ini wanita
mengerti mood kalian
wanita yg kalian anggap EGOIS ini wanita yg
selalu ada disaat kalian butuh
wanita yg kalian anggap EGOIS ini ibu ke-2
kalian
wanita yg kalian anggap EGOIS ini yg selalu
mendorong kalian dengan segelintir doanya
wanita yg kalian anggap EGOIS ini yg selalu
ada saat kalian sakit
wanita yg kalian anggap EGOIS ini wanita yg
selalu siap menerima lampiasan amarah
kalian
wanita yg kalian anggap EGOIS ini wanita yg
selalu ada cinta& sayang u/ kalian
wanita yg kalian anggap EGOIS ini wanita yg
selalu menerima kesakitan/luka yg kalian
berikan
wanita yg kaliang anggap EGOIS ini juga yg
rela mati/berkorban nyawa u/ kalian
lihat& fikir! Wanita bukan sekedar jadi pacar,
wanita bukan sekedar jadi cewek, wanita
bukan sekedar jadi pelacur, wanita bukan
sekedar TKI dimalaysia
WANITA ADALAH MALAIKAT PARA LELAKI
ada laki-laki karna ada seorang Ibu, seorang
Ibu adalah Wanita
laki-laki yg menyakiti seorang Wanita =
menyakiti Ibunya sendiri
Wanita tak minta dibayar
Wanita tak minta dihadiahi
Wanita tak minta diberi benda
Wanita tak minta Emas
Wanita tak minta uang belanja
Wanita tak minta dibelikan Alphard
Wanita tak butuh Rumah Real Estate
Wanita tak butuh uang 1MILYAR /bulan
Wanita tak butuh jabatan
Wanita tak butuh Materi apapun
Wanita tak butuh lelaki tampan
Wanita tak butuh lelaki kaya
seorang WANITA hanya minta DIHARGAIN
dengan hati
seorang WANITA hanya minta DITERIMA isi
hatinya, ketidak sempurnaannya
seorang WANITA hanya minta DIBERI kasih
sayang tulus
ketahuilah bawa Wanita itu adalah MAHLUK
TERINDAH
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Mom's Love :')

07.57 by Afiah Fitrianti
When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.

When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.

When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with Love.
You thanked her by tossing the plate on the floor.

When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.
You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.

When you were 5, she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping into the nearest.

When you were 6, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming, I'M NOT GOING!

When you were 7, she bought you a ball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbours window.

When you were 8, she handed you an ice-cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over her lap.

When you were 9, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering it to practice.

When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day,
from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party to another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking her to sit in a different row.

When you were 12, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

When you were 13, she suggested a haircut.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid a month away at the summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive a car.
You thanked her by taking every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all the night.

When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition,
drove you to campus carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying outside the dorm
so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 20, she asked you whether you are seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying, Its none of your business.

When you were 21, she suggested you certain careers.
You thanked her by saying, I don't want to be like you.

When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

When you were 24, she met your finance and asked about plans for the future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling, Muuhh-there, please !

When you were 25, she helped you to pay for your wedding.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
You thanked her by telling her, Things are different now.

When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relatives birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were really busy right now.

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day, she quietly died.
And everything you never did came crashing down
like thunder on YOUR HEART.

If she's still around,
never forget to love Her more than ever.
And if she's not,
remember Her unconditional love.
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Elevents Hints For Life

07.55 by Afiah Fitrianti
1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

4. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose
it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other’s shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you’re the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
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